24 JanHow to Become a Tree of Confidence

Confidence plays a vital role in the success of anyone. Lack of confidence not only puts you down but it will also make you succumb and turn towards your own shell. So lack of confidence should be replaced by a radiance of ever ending confidence and self esteem. Most of us feel the lack of confidence in some areas which has to be worked upon for the better.

As I had discussed in my previous article “Even Small Negative Thoughts Can Ruin your Life – How to Get Rid Of It” (http://sanojjose79.blogspot.com/2010/01/even-small-negative-thoughts-can-ruin.html), I had discussed in detail the relation between negative thoughts and confidence and how confidence plays an important part in getting rid of negative thinking. Read more…

20 JanLearning How To Build Your Confidence

Confidence is a funny thing. Are some people – the gorgeous and successful among us – born with it? Of course not. These people got to be successful and smooth by appearing to be confident. And what about those who were smart enough to choose the right parents or get dipped in the gorgeous-gene pool? Well, you might not believe it but often these people are surprisingly insecure and frightened – of losing their looks, of appearing stupid and superficial, of growing old, of putting on weight, or of having no one love them for any reason other than their looks.

You don’t have to be stunning to be confident. Go ahead and accept the ride home with the too-cute guy from your building who you never thought would ask you out. Introduce yourself to the fascinating girl you’d really like to know better. Or at least say “hi” to the person you see at the bus stop every day. Read more…

16 JanConfidence Building Activities: 3 Easy Ways To Build Confidence And Self-Esteem

It’s natural for us to be overcome by shyness or insecurity every once in a while. But if you’re the kind of person who’s terrified of everything, then you need some help. In this article, you’ll learn about a few confidence building activities that are guaranteed to improve your way of life.

Why do you have to suffer through extreme shyness when you know you can do something about it? These confidence building activities, while not the “end all, be all,” can help you get past your wallflower syndrome and help you get your life back.

Confidence-Building Activity # 1: Start a Journal.

Coming to terms with your insecurities will greatly help you boost your confidence. Sometimes, all that holds us back is fear. When we allow fear of embarrassment or fear of what may come stand in our way, we will not be able to function well at all. Read more…

24 DecNLP Techniques for Confidence: 3 Powerful NLP Techniques To Skyrocket Your Confidence

We can all use a boost or two of self-confidence. Unfortunately, these boosts don’t come in tablets or in pills. If you want to step out of your shell, you need to summon it from within. That’s where NLP techniques for confidence come in.

These techniques help you draw whatever ounce of confidence you have stored inside you and help you nurture that quality to its maximum potential.

So if you’re ready to learn these NLP techniques for confidence, read on!

NLP Technique for Confidence # 1: Groove to the Music.

Music has always been a vital part of life. Whether you’re into country music, rock, pop ballads or nature instrumentals, music more or less has an influence over the way you feel. Read more…

06 DecGain confidence as a speaker

Gain Confidence as a speaker

 THE MIND IS A WONDERFUL THING. IT SHTARTS TO WORK THE MINUTE YOU ARE BORN, AND NEVER STOPS UNTIL YOU GET UP TO SPEAK IN PUBLIC – JOHN MASON BROWN.

More than one opinion survey has indicated that speaking before an audience is a number life time fear. Although it is quite frightening and may afflict you much like a disease, you can overcome the stage fright.

 YES, YOU CAN!

 

  • Accept podium anxiety as a motivating force that even the most talented performer’s experience.

 

  • Prepare so completely that your expert knowledge makes you feel invulnerable and unstoppable.

 

  • Study the audience so thoroughly that you are sure you know how to push their “hot buttons.”

 

  • Rehearse your presentation from the very lectern in the very room where you’ll deliver it. Read more…

27 NovImproving Self Confidence Will Change Your Life

Self confidence is extremely important for you to succeed and achieve great things in life however many people struggle to find it. The good news is that there are many ways of improving self confidence.

Self confidence is made up of two key factors, self-efficacy and self-esteem. We gain a sense of self-efficacy when we can see ourselves doing well in something and reaching our goals. This does overlap with self-esteem which is a more general idea that we are able to cope with the things that are happening in our lives and that we have a reason and right to be happy.

People who are self confident believe in themselves and evaluate themselves realistically. They believe that they are in control of their lives.

One way of improving self confidence is positive self-talk. Read more…